Yes, That’s A Fact, A Happy Relationship Builds Slow

So ever wondered, how some people are able to lasts their relationship forever? Having the same passion for each other, the same level of interest and the steady attraction they have carried towards other since the day they got into a relation to till date? Well, if you still think that’s absolutely impossible, then let me tell you that you haven’t started it the right way or at least you didn’t met the right people who showed it’s possible. A healthy relationship begins with mutual interest and admiration for each other that only grows up over time. If you’re anything seeking to be blessed to have a lasting relationship, then this article is for you.

Go Slow

Create an environment that lets you grow both interest and attraction towards other steadily over time, rather than pouring you a big chunk of emotional storm all at once. Because it’s highly impossible to remain unsteady when it comes to relationship, because you know, we humans are blessed to carry emotions, especially women are naturally more emotional :P

Check compatibility

I am not asking you to do the groundwork on compatibility, figure out shared goals and interests, but some common interests, hobbies - in a long run they matter a lot, I meant it. Because these are things that simply can’t be compromised. So it’s a wise to figure out if you are fundamentally comfortable with him or her. And I must say the best and ideal way to do this is - No HURRY. Go slow.

Give some space

So you decided to spend all your time with him/her in a day, I bet you risk ignoring very significant things about who you love and whether or not your relationship is the one that’s built to last. So here’s the reason - people who feel strong for the other doesn’t always mean they are the one who’s going to stay together lifetime.

Chuck out OCD

So you met him/her, backdrop you felt he or she is THE ONE! Now you want to spend every moment in a day with them. Text throughout the day, if not talk on phone for hours and you just feel like you can never get enough of this. I am telling you this a trait of OCD - I mean Obsessive Compulsive Disorder! And the reason that I say it’s not healthy because this might become problematic. On a long run, you might just end up relying too much on the other and you find it hard to be happy without this relationship. And soon or later, if you realize the person you thought the one is no more right for you, you will simply enter into deep depression. It requires many moons to come out of the situation.

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They knew that it was the time to end-up their relationship, but they didn't think to end this way!

Neither of them were happy - that much was for sure.

Her eyes were puffy, face was blanched from crying the last night. They had been arguing over on random things. It was totally a bizarre that sort of things they argue on, a phase that’s followed by a never-ending groans. Just about when things seemed to be calm down, the atmosphere would fire up again, as though they have no option but to fight on every thing that seems to be super minute. Their relationship is filled with unbroken complaints on each other, over and over again, leaving no room for happiness, satisfaction, relief and of course the vague term called - LOVE!

It all started when the guy was uncertain about whether she loves him or not. Sure, he has to, because, their relationship wasn’t the one that kicked-off from the friendship. It’s somewhere close to strangership and miles away from the friendship. But then because somebody named that relation as love, they continued to be called the way.

However, as the days pass it’s not fair at all to seem him being humiliated by her. Although there is a bit of laughter, cheeriness and endearment between each other, there’s this thought running backdrop of their minds - they are getting treated unfairly by the other. Withal, both worked hard to keep up their relationship. They had a long-run ideation to take this to the next level called marriage, with a little hope for betterment of their amity - but that didn’t happen.

Well, she did her best despite the rebellious conversation they had the previous day. She waited for him down the street, hoping to bring back that joy and tenderness. But as the calm before the storm she had him saying something at that moment that she never wanted to hear. Not that she wanted to part from him because now that she got a reason to break, but this is something that broke her heart into pieces. She developed an extreme dislike in herself for the love she had created for him - the intense love that she thought would never let him go. But this can’t be endured anymore.

And the day has come when they thought to end their relation. However their mindset towards waning this correlation was different. She wanted to do in a harmonious way while he didn’t want to toe the line. He got so damn cranky, sounds angry because he could smell that if she is gone now she’s never going to come back again.

#tragicending #sadlovestory #insanemisunderstanding #heartbrokenstory