Yes, That’s A Fact, A Happy Relationship Builds Slow

So ever wondered, how some people are able to lasts their relationship forever? Having the same passion for each other, the same level of interest and the steady attraction they have carried towards other since the day they got into a relation to till date? Well, if you still think that’s absolutely impossible, then let me tell you that you haven’t started it the right way or at least you didn’t met the right people who showed it’s possible. A healthy relationship begins with mutual interest and admiration for each other that only grows up over time. If you’re anything seeking to be blessed to have a lasting relationship, then this article is for you.

Go Slow

Create an environment that lets you grow both interest and attraction towards other steadily over time, rather than pouring you a big chunk of emotional storm all at once. Because it’s highly impossible to remain unsteady when it comes to relationship, because you know, we humans are blessed to carry emotions, especially women are naturally more emotional :P

Check compatibility

I am not asking you to do the groundwork on compatibility, figure out shared goals and interests, but some common interests, hobbies - in a long run they matter a lot, I meant it. Because these are things that simply can’t be compromised. So it’s a wise to figure out if you are fundamentally comfortable with him or her. And I must say the best and ideal way to do this is - No HURRY. Go slow.

Give some space

So you decided to spend all your time with him/her in a day, I bet you risk ignoring very significant things about who you love and whether or not your relationship is the one that’s built to last. So here’s the reason - people who feel strong for the other doesn’t always mean they are the one who’s going to stay together lifetime.

Chuck out OCD

So you met him/her, backdrop you felt he or she is THE ONE! Now you want to spend every moment in a day with them. Text throughout the day, if not talk on phone for hours and you just feel like you can never get enough of this. I am telling you this a trait of OCD - I mean Obsessive Compulsive Disorder! And the reason that I say it’s not healthy because this might become problematic. On a long run, you might just end up relying too much on the other and you find it hard to be happy without this relationship. And soon or later, if you realize the person you thought the one is no more right for you, you will simply enter into deep depression. It requires many moons to come out of the situation.

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